Dear Akhwat-Akhwat Sholihah

Oleh: Deli Fatmawati

Rasanya senang sekali melihatmu memakai jilbab menutupi dada dan bahkan banyak yang lebih dari itu. Berjilbab lebar yang mungkin membuat orang lain yang belum sepertimu, iri terhadapmu. Bahkan sekarang, akhwat-akhwat bercadar juga semakin banyak. Alhamdulillah.

Tapi ada yang membuat hatiku kadang sesak. Ah entahlah aku yang terlalu serius atau memang ini adalah hal yang kurang baik.

Alhamdulillah akhirnya aku berani menuliskan ini. Hatiku kadang sesak mendengar akhwat akhwat yang – in sya Allah – Allah muliakan, teriak histeris jika melihat ikhwan ikhwan seperti Fatih Seferagic, Muzzamil, Hamas, dll.

Bukankah kamu sudah berniat pada diri sendiri bahwa kamu akan menjaga diri? Bahwa kamu akan memberikan kasih sayangmu kepada lelaki yang kelak akan menjadi teman hidupmu? Tapi kenapa ketika kamu bertemu mereka kamu harus berteriak histeris? Ah akhwat, kamu terlalu mulia melalukan hal itu. Ingatkah kamu, bahwa wanita di ciptakan dengan banyak kemuliaan dan keutamaan?

Tak hanya sampai di sana, terkadang aku sering melihat komentar-komentar akhwat akhwat – yang in sya Allah, Allah muliakan – berkomentar di kolom-kolom postingan para ikhwan yang saya sebut tadi dengan menurut saya tidak terlalu pantas, dengan emoticon love contohnya, atau komentar “masyaAllah gantengnya”, “masyaAllah calon suamiku”, dll.

“Lah emang kenapa? Salah? Kan hanya becanda.”

Dear akhwat-akhwat sholihah, kalau kamu bisa semenjaga itu ketika komentar di kolom-kolom teman-teman ikhwanmu, kenapa kamu juga tidak bisa menjaga komentarmu di kolom ikhwan-ikhwan terkenal itu?

Kamu “ngefans” sama mereka karena mereka mengajak kepada kebaikan dan menginspirasimu? It’s okay akhwat, tidak apa-apa. Tapi jangan jadikan itu alasan kamu melupakan bahwa mereka juga ikhwan yang perlu kita bantu agar dapat menjaga hati.

Dear akhwat, teman hidupmu nanti layak mendapatkan teman hidup yang pandai menjaga diri. Bukankah kamu juga menginginkan orang seperti itu? Bukankah kamu juga paham bahwa wanita-wanita baik hanya untuk laki-laki baik?

Ah tapi bukan ini alasan utamanya, alasan utamanya adalah karena kita adalah hambaNya yang harus menjaga diri.

Dan satu lagi, beberapa hari yang lalu aku dengar dari salah satu temanku bahwa Muzzamil akan menikah dan baru tadi siang aku penasaran dengan komentar-komentar para akhwat. Dan yap, seperti yang aku fikirkan, banyak emot patah hati, dan komentar-komentar ‘baper’ lainya.
Tenang akhwat, tak perlu ikut-ikutan. Kamu mempesona dengan caramu menjaga. Jika memang ikhwan-ikhwan terkenal itu sudah Allah tuliskan menjadi teman hidupmu, tidak akan Allah jauhkan meskipun kamu tak pernah memberikan emoticon love di kolom komentarnya.

Terakhir, kalau nanti Muzzamil (Reciter Quran, Alumni Arsitektur ITB) sudah akad, jangan sampe kalian jadi ingin terburu buru untuk menyusul yang pada akhirnya membuatmu galau. Stop akhwat, semua orang punya waktu yang tepat! Stop galau melihat orang yang sudah menggenapkan agamanya! Kita masih punya banyak kesempatan untuk mengembangkan potensi kita. Jangan habiskan waktumu untuk hanya galau tentang urusan satu ini. Karena urusan agama kita lebih dari hal itu.

Tetapi jika kamu sudah siap, maka silahkan laksanakanlah 🙂
Tetapi jika belum, tunggulah sampai kau benar-benar siap dan Allah katakan ini sudah saatnya.

Semangat menjaga diri akhwat-akhwat sholihah! Semangat mengembangkan potensimu!

Dan in sya Allah kamu akan menemukan orang yang tepat suatu hari nanti! Percayalah 🙂

Dear akhwat, karena kamu begitu berharga :”)


Depok, 05 Juli 2017
Deli Fatmawati
yang mencintaimu karena Allah.
(Semester 4 / Psikologi / Fakultas Psikologi / Divisi PSDM Komda Psikologi)

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